How can virgin people avoid porn ?

Question by M: How can virgin people avoid porn ?
I am a 24 years old guy who doesn’t want to watch porn and I am virgin because I am a profound christian and will wait till my marriage for my wife to create a happy and religious family.

I have seen so many antiporn movements and let me say they are perfect but those sites work for only those who are married or have a partner in their life. And I think is kinda crazy because if I get married I will never watch porn. Now I watch porn once per week or once per 2 weeks and I am very sad for that and especially from the religious view.

I have avoid even females for sex due to my christian view of having a healthy life and family after.

The problem is even lets say well bigger. I study a really difficult major abroad and of course with scholarship and not in my native language so I do have to study a lot to get good marks.
I am now in the last year but I think that I will continue PhD.
So basically my random day is as follow:
1) Room in which I live alone and only can study, live and of course watch, write, program and talk with my laptop.
2) University
3) Supermarket
4) Church and their activities and travel to some places in the country or abroad when I have holidays.

So that’s basically all those 5 years life as student and I don’t feel lonely. My problem in those years was : How to avoid porn when you are virgin and you don’t feel lonely but you don’t know what to do in free time after you finished doing your random things like studying, watching all movies, chatting.
So basically that is routine life well for about 4 other years as I will do PhD so please can you advice me how people in my situation can avoid porn.

I know that are so many guys and girls like me that have the same situation so please give us an advice that what to do other things instead of watching porn.

Thank you in advance.

Best answer:

Answer by Eddie
Not sure if you’re talking about masturbation or just looking at porn while mastubating?

If you want to quit both then you have no chance.

If it’s just porn then use your imagination as a substitute – think of you and your future wife making sweet love in the marital bed if that makes you happy.

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3 Responses to “How can virgin people avoid porn ?”

  1. Leigh B says:

    Um, it’s really not hard to avoid porn, considering it requires at least a little effort to seek it out.

    I’d suggest cultivating your imagination. People always say “men are visual,” but that’s just silly. What most guys are is LAZY. Sexual fantasies are neither harmful nor sinful, and porn is not required to either create or enjoy them.

  2. Classylady says:

    Instead of watvhing porn read a book or play a game on the computer. Im a virgin too in college Im a Junior.And I have warched porn too, you get curious ecspecially for virgins.Well I think that you have to have that self control and say NO Im going to read this book and educate myself more than watch porn. It is hard but you just have to train your mind. I think that once a week is a bit much,I say once a month.Im waiting til a married to have sex. But I get curious sometime. Im not addicted to it at all.cause i try to keep busy or take a cold shower and jog in place.I masturbate so that gets my mind off porn too

  3. Adamiak says:

    First of all, thanks for sharing. You’re not alone. Many men, good Christian men like yourself, struggle with the very same thing you’re going through. I think pornography is cyclical in its destructiveness. It’s a means to alleviate a present loneliness, instant gratification, but its fleeting, and thus we find ourselves using porn more often. And I think it only deepens the loneliness. For one thing, I think you need to balance your grad school life with some social activities. Be a part of a community, surround yourself with good company. Get out, and exercise.

    Secondly, and importantly, I think you should join a men’s accountability group, to share, and carry each others burdens. I find my men’s group indispensable to my Christian faith.

    I wish you the best of luck my friend. God bless.

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